As the aunt of the bride, you hold a special position at the wedding. You're close family, likely involved in the celebrations, and will be prominently featured in photographs. Your outfit should reflect your significance while appropriately deferring to the bride and her parents. Here's your guide to aunt-of-the-bride dressing.
Understanding Your Role
As the bride's aunt, you typically:
- Are part of the close family circle
- Participate in pre-wedding ceremonies
- Stand near the bride's parents in receiving lines
- Appear in family photographs
- May have ceremonial roles (holding kalash, etc.)
The Hierarchy of Dressing
At an Indian wedding, dress importance generally follows:
- Bride
- Mother of the bride
- Sisters/close female relatives of the bride
- Aunts (maternal and paternal)
- Other relatives and guests
As an aunt, dress elegantly but let the mother and sisters shine more prominently.
Sarees for Wedding Ceremonies
Sarees are always appropriate for aunts. The ZARIYA mint green Banarasi with sequin and gota work is elegant without being overwhelming.
For evening receptions, the AASHIQUI royal blue chiffon saree with sequin florals offers sophisticated glamour.
Silk Kurta Sets for Comfort
If you prefer kurtas, silk kurta sets offer elegance with ease. The HEER & ZUNAIRA golden jacquard kurta is appropriately festive for close family.
Pre-Wedding Functions
For mehendi and sangeet, you can be more relaxed. The BANNI & AAYAT chanderi kurta with sequin and cutdana work is festive yet comfortable.
Colour Coordination
Check with the bride's mother: Some families coordinate colours. Ask before planning your outfits.
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Avoid: The bride's colours (especially for the main wedding), white, black for ceremonies.
Anarkalis for Evening Functions
For sangeet and reception, anarkalis offer grace with ease. The SUROOR Bandhej Banarasi silk anarkali is elegant without being bridal.
Outfit Planning by Function
Engagement: Elegant kurta set or saree. Festive but not overwhelming.
Mehendi: Comfortable, colourful kurta set. You may be helping with arrangements.
Sangeet: Glamorous but comfortable. You might dance!
Wedding: Your finest saree or outfit. This is the main event.
Reception: Evening glamour. Saree or elegant anarkali.
Practical Considerations
Comfort: You'll be on your feet, hosting, and busy. Choose practical elegance.
Multiple outfits: Plan different looks for each function.
Easy pieces: You may not have help dressing. Choose manageable outfits.
Browse our full collection for aunt-appropriate wedding wear.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I wear the same colour as the mother of the bride?
Best to avoid, especially for the main ceremony. Coordinate to ensure distinction.
Should maternal and paternal aunts match?
Some families coordinate. Others don't. Check with the wedding organisers.
How dressy should I be compared to wedding guests?
More dressy. You're close family and should be visibly distinguished from regular guests.
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